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What can I do to prevent my child from running away from home?

What are the signs my teen might be thinking about running away from home?

What should I do if my child runs away from home?

What should I do when my child returns home?

	Be happy. While you may be understandably upset with her, let your first words be calm and welcoming. Many teens stay away from home because they are afraid of the initial confrontation with their parents when they return. Take a very long, deep breath and tell her that you are relieved to have her home.
	Allow time for her to settle in. Most runaways have not had the luxury of consistent access to food or shelter while on the run. Perhaps she needs a shower, a meal, a clean set of clothes, or a good night's sleep.
	Get medical attention. A visit to the family doctor might be necessary.
	Talk with her. Concentrate on how the two of you can work together to prevent any repeat running away behavior. Let her know that some problems take a lot of time and effort to improve. Make a commitment to finding a safe and reasonable resolution to the current problems and situations.
	Make follow up phone calls. Call anyone you contacted while she was gone. Let friends and family members know that she has returned home. Call the police to let them know she is no longer missing.
	Look for assistance. There are people and places in your community that can help your family. Counseling is helpful to everyone. Asking for help is a sign of strength and shows you are taking the issues seriously.

For more information, or for assistance, call the National Runaway Switchboard at 1-800-621-4000 (all services are free, confidential and available 24 hours). The organization's Home Free program also grants free bus tickets to qualified youth, ages 12-21.

(Also see the Safer Child page on Runaways for more resources.)

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