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Guns & Kids

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Boy, 6, Kills Mom During Target Practice: This was the tragic headline late in March, 2001, after a family went target shooting and reportedly allowed a boy to handle his father's gun. According to the news story, the father had stepped away for a moment, and the mother was lying prone, shooting her own gun. The boy was attempting to reload the gun when he accidentally shot his mother in the head. She died instantly. The story said the boy had been shooting for two years, and that he normally shot a "kid's gun."

If you absolutely must allow a 4- or 6-year-old to target practice with you, remember that experts say children younger than 10 years old aren't cognizant enough of danger and cause and effect to even cross a busy street by themselves. You are begging for tragedy by allowing a child to handle a firearm without intense and constant adult supervision. We have to admit -- we'd rather young children didn't handle guns at all.

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Banning Guns Won't Guarantee Safety:  However you feel about guns, kids, the Constitution and the government, there is one thing for sure: Banning guns from your home, or even from the country, will not necessarily prevent your child from having a run-in with a gun or other dangerous weapon.

Do teach your child about guns and other weapons -- about avoiding them, about telling an adult, about never playing with guns (or even standing by while someone else does), about never pointing a gun at anyone in fun, about always assuming that a gun is loaded...

Guns are not cool. They are not fun. They are simply a tool -- to be handled properly by law-abiding adults who have a reason to handle them. And whether you believe those adults should include any law-abiding citizen -- or whether you believe they should include only police and military personnel  -- you must make sure that your child knows exactly what to do when confronted with a dangerous situation.

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Basic Tips for Firearm Safety: (not intended or implied to be a complete list. For more, see the links listed below).

bulletAlways lock your firearms when they are not being used. Lock ammunition in a safe place away from firearms. At an age-appropriate time, show your children a gun, and explain what it can do. You do not have to teach that the gun is "bad," only that it is a tool that can be dangerous in the wrong hands. Nevertheless, do not assume that your child will not find your gun, will not be able to fire your gun, will not know how to make it work, or will remember the lessons you have taught. Very small children have fired guns accidentally. "I told them not to touch it" is not a good defense.
bulletAlways assume that your firearm is loaded -- and handle it that way -- even if you are absolutely certain you have emptied all the bullets. Many people have been killed by a bullet accidentally left in the chamber. "I didn't know it was loaded" is not a good defense.
bulletUse a good locking device that is appropriate for the children living in your house. Do not depend on it as a sole safety measure. "I didn't think he knew how to work the lock" is not a good defense.
bulletNever ever point a firearm at anyone in fun. Always point your firearm in a safe direction. Remember that a wall is not a safe direction. A distant tree in a public woods is not a safe direction. An animal that you can't clearly identify is not a safe direction. Bullets easily go through most walls and can injure or kill someone on the other side. It's easy to miss the tree and hit a person hiking. Hunters have accidentally killed horseback riders, thinking they were deer. You are liable for wherever your bullets go. "I didn't know she was on the other side" is not a good defense.
bulletTeach your children that if they see a gun, they should not touch it, and they should immediately leave the area to go tell an adult. Teach them that guns are not toys, and that if a friend wants to show them a gun, they should immediately leave the area and go tell an adult. Impress on your child that this is not tattling -- this could easily save the friend's life or your child's own life. Do not avoid teaching these important lessons to your child or pretend that guns do not exist. They do, and they can be dangerous in the wrong hands or if handled improperly.
bulletDo not assume that other adults think the same way you do. Before letting your child play at someone's house, ask if there are firearms in the home and where they are. It's a difficult question to ask -- particularly of people you barely know -- but asking this question could save your child's life. Remember that other adults have guns in their home. Other adults lock guns and ammunition together. Other adults keep loaded guns in a nightstand next to their bed or even under their pillow. Other adults have not taught their children important lessons about guns. These other adults will include people you wouldn't think would own guns. "I didn't even know they had a gun" will not bring your child back to life.

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National Ask Day -- August 20, 2001, was the first National Ask Day. Sponsored by PAX, a nonprofit organization, and the American Academy of Pediatrics, the campaign is designed to encourage parents to ask neighbors about guns in the home before sending children there to play. According to PAX, more than 40 percent of American homes with children in them also have guns. Many of these weapons are kept loaded and within reach of a determined child.

Many parents are reluctant to ask about the presence of guns because they're afraid to offend their friends and neighbors. But in Good Housekeeping's September 2001 issue, Ann Marie Crowell (whose son Brian was shot to death at a friend's house) offers this advice: "I know a quick cure for embarrassment: Close your eyes and imagine life without your child." For more on the ASK Campaign, see the PAX excerpts in our Expert Voices section.

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For more on firearms, firearm law, and protecting your child:

If you know of any site (on any side of this issue) that you'd like us to add to this page, please tell us.

bullet Safer Child's page on Hunting Safety
bulletThe Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms (ATF)
bullet The Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms (ATF) - KIDS page - list several resources for educating children about guns and gun safety.
bulletYouth Crime Gun Interdiction Initiative (ATF)
bulletAmerican Academy of Pediatrics - April, 2000 - policy statement
bullet Project HomeSafe
bullet PAX: Real Solutions to Gun Violence - information on the ASK Campaign
bulletNational Rifle Association
bullet The NRA's Eddie Eagle GunSafe Program
bullet Remington Safety Center
bullet Americans for Gun Safety Foundation
bullet KidsHealth - explains the gun issue and offers suggestions to protect your child.
bulletNational SAFE KIDS Campaign - information and tips for protecting your child.
bullet Expert Gavin de Becker discusses having guns in the home
bulletSee the Safer Child Expert Voices section for excerpts from the ASK Campaign information.
bullet Safer Child Communication page
bulletSafer Child Protect Your Child page - information on gangs, cults and school violence

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